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My dads recurring cancer

Started : 8.8.2017 by Anna

My dad has now had cancer four times, but this time it feels like a worse process than the others. It has been almost two years since my dad got diagnosed with his most recent cancer in his brain, and although he has had treatment (gamma knife radiation), he is in constant pain and has to take medication everyday. My dad has had cancer throughout my life but never as bad as now, and this has made me become really distant with him and I hate myself for hating him when he is already suffering so much. I just don't know what to do anymore, I just feel so depressed. Anna - 14

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1 - Robyn 8/8/2017 @ 09:09

Hello Anna,

Robyn from the riprap team here – the mixed emotions you are feeling are a normal reaction to a difficult situation that has got worse over time.

I am wondering if you have been able to talk about the effect your Dad’s illness has had on you – with family, friends , teacher or perhaps a counsellor?

You would be very welcome to message Hilde, Sue and me privately here at Riprap, using the Get in touch form. We are all experienced cancer nurses, we can talk things through and help you to find support locally. Best wishes Robyn

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