My story is about how it takes just one person to help you to cope and that can turn around your life.
A few years ago, I found out my dad had kidney cancer. I didn't know how to react, I was scared, lonely, angry, confused and quite honestly felt like I had nowhere to turn. My parents and I aren't close, and I don't have many friends, I didn't want to tell my friends, I didn't want their pity, but admittedly, I did need their support.
A few months down the line and I found out the cancer had progressed, I began to get depressed and stopped seeing my friends. In college, my tutor noticed that I wasn't doing so well, she asked me about it, I broke down. I realised that I couldn't take it alone, I needed someone I could rely on, and that's what he became to me.
I now realise that I can tell my friends, that they won't judge or pity me, that they'll help me whenever it's needed.
Page updated 21 March 2014